Dating website

Hello, I would like a dating website, created, I would like the prommer to build the site with these options. first when a client log on the site they must enter payment information and pictures with these two items the client can't move forward. next i would like the client to upload music, build a personal area,? video, instant chat and chat live. finally i would like the site to build on a landing page, meaning yahoo, google and msn and more. where clients can find it easy. I have build a site but it has many problems? website, I want the coder to abb the SEO to the dating site, i would like to site build something like the Ray, where a website to get an ideal;<[login to view URL]>, but I do not want a php temple.