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I am interested.
The internet can be a great place to find your true love. Although you heard your friends many times laughing about internet dating, you should ignore them. Or if you can’t, just don’t tell them. Just think about the moment when you will present them your new boyfriend and you will say: “I met him or her on the internet!”
You will have to be careful about internet dating. There are a lot of scammers out here just looking for your money. When you find a good looking guy who fought in the war, has a child and a sad story, usually divorced and talks a lot about his trips to Africa, than you should run as fast as possible. Or, if you like games, you can play with him until he requests some money. But be careful because they are very persuasive and convincing! Maybe at a moment you will think that his story could be true. Remember that the guys who are really looking to find a mach don’t request money from you. On the contrary, they might ask you if you need something and if they can do something for you. Think about what you want for your half mate. Are you looking for somebody who asks money from you before he meets you? Or for a person that can be there for you and is willing to help you when you are down?
The first thing to do is find you an online dating service. Look carefully for what you want. There are specialized dating services for young or old people, gay persons, long or short term dating services. That’s why you have to decide what you want, what kind of person are you looking for and what is your immediate and long term goal. If you have the money, you should choose paid services, because you will find a lot of quality people there. Usually somebody who is looking for a real relationship is willing to pay for this. The scammers usually can be found on the big free dating sites because they can reach much more people there to con. Even if you choose a free or paid service, be sure that you are signing on a quality site to have a good service and a pleasant experience.
Make yourself a profile that has enough information but keeps the mystery about you. You don’t want to post too many things or pictures on the profile because you will not experience the thrilling of discovering later. Try not to present yourself as a sad person. Your soul-mate won’t be looking for a wining woman. Try to be funny, but don’t overreact.
Look for persons who share the same interests as you. That’s how you make sure you will have a pleasant conversation, even if that person is not what you are looking for. Many dating sites have their own chat, with multisession, so you can find out a little about a person before engaging a private conversation. Try not to get too personal on this main chat, because people can use that information against you later.
After you met the right person, try to get a date. Remember that the chat service is only helping you to find a real person. Your main goal is to meet someone in your life, not to be always online. The date should be in a crowded place, on daylight so you can ensure you won’t get too personal and you can both feel relaxed.
Don’t be discouraged if you don’t find somebody on your first dates online. There are a lot of people searching for someone like you on the internet. You will just have to be a little patient.
